Sexual pleasure between heterosexual couples (whether long term or a hook up) is often uneven. I have found that there is usually a “giver” and a “receiver” in the pair, and typically the giver is female. Whether we want to believe it or not, sexuality continues to be male-focused…the sex act is complete when the male orgasms and ejaculates, leaving many women compelled to concentrate exclusively on the man’s pleasure and not their own.
What about women’s orgasms during coupled sex? The problem is, over 75% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Furthermore, the average time for women to experience orgasms is 10-20 minutes, while the average time of penetration that males sustain is 3-5 minutes, not giving women the opportunity for orgasms. This scenario is further complicated by the fact that many men may not be skilled in the art of clitoral stimulation and are threatened by pleasure enhancing sex toys, and/or women are too embarrassed to use pleasure aides during partnered sex.
In light of all of this, I thought I’d take a look at Eva II, a “hands-free” clitoral stimulator that can be used somewhat discretely during intercourse.
Positive Features
- It is made out of body safe silicone.
- It is waterproof.
- It is easy to clean.
- It is relatively hands-free, featuring two wings that help hold it in place.
- It has three vibration speeds to choose from.
- It is not a phallic shaped device, therefore will not likely be a threat to men.
- It delivers stimulation directly to the clitoris while allowing plenty of room for penetration.
- It is small enough to easily fit in a purse, or even pocket, making it easy to take on a date.
Challenges
- Because every vulva is different, it will be easier for EVA II to stay in place for some and not for others. The solution for this challenge is crotchless panties, which nicely holds the device in place. Men are typically stimulated by visuals, so a sexy pair of panties can also add to his pleasure.
- As mentioned before, it typically takes a longer period of stimulation for a woman to experience an orgasm, so if she applies Eva immediately prior to intercourse, she is likely to still end up without getting to the big O. One solution is to use those crotchless panties to keep Eva in place for some before-penetration excitement, giving enough extra time to ensure the desired results.
Equalize the pleasure! For women who want a discrete tool that offers clitoral stimulation during intercourse, Eva II is a product worth trying. Check her out HERE.